Valerie Barker
Alan and I dated for 7 years before we married. Like one of my friends from school said recently" We we're joined at the hip" even in High School. He always made the big decisions. I hardly know how to go on without him. Dancing was our favorite pastime. Ballroom dancing we learned at stake dances., and square dancing. The Christmas before we got married I was really sick with a high fever and was staying in bed at my parents house. He came over and brought me a large teddy bear and some drink he said his dad made that would make me better. I tried to call in sick to work and they said I needed to go anyway. Alan called my boss up and just told her how sick I was and said she won't be able to make it to work.
He always took care of me through all the surgeries. He pushed me around in a wheelchair alot


