Spencer Chapman
Gary was the kind of man whose presence left a lasting mark on the people around him. For me, he showed that being a man didn’t mean hardening yourself to the world—it meant having the courage to be gentle, kind, and compassionate.
He made me feel that it was not only acceptable, but honorable, to approach others with warmth and empathy. The way he carried himself and treated people helped shape the man I’ve become today. The energy, patience, and love I try to bring to everyone I meet is a reflection of the example he set.
His influence will continue to live on in the lives he touched, including mine. I’m grateful for the time I had to know him and for the lessons he shared just by being who he was. While I arrived late for the service tonight it was wonderful to hear everyone’s stories of how Gary impacted each of our lives.
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.


