I’ve had dozens of coaches, and all of them have taught me something. Many of them knew more about the given sport than Pizz or were more invested in a district or state title, but NONE of them knew young men like Coach Pizz did. Other coaches were teaching you how to run a route and execute a takedown, but Pizz was teaching you how to be a good man. He didn't love you because you were great at the sport or because you brought home a trophy; he loved you because he took the time to get to know you, and because he cared about your life after you hung up your cleats and singlet.
He taught me the fruits of hard work, and that the first round went to talent, but the next two went to the harder worker and the person who wanted it more. He taught me what it meant to be part of a team—that a leader is the first person to arrive and the last person to leave, and that they help the next person in line. He taught me that what you do is infinitely more important than what you say. (And that was a hard lesson for me to learn, having been given the nickname "MOUTH" by Pizz because of my prolific ability to talk.)
I once nearly lost a wrestling match to an opponent I believed I should have beaten easily. I got thrown and almost pinned. I was furious, and despite winning, I left the mat without shaking my opponent's or the opposing coaches' hands. Pizz was furious! He found me in the locker room a few minutes later and let me have it: How dare I disrespect my opponent and the hard work they had put in to get there? How dare I disrespect the other coach? And how dare I disrespect the sport? But most of all, how dare I disrespect myself, my character, and my potential? He tore me a new one, then he embraced me in a giant bear hug and told me he expected more of me because I am better than that. And I believed him. He had a way of doing that—of making you feel like you belonged out there with the bigger, faster, stronger kids, and that the only thing that could stop you was you.
I could share another dozen stories, all of them as formative and special to me as the last. But suffice it to say that the throughline of my relationship with Pizz was that of a blacksmith and a piece of iron. I was an unshaped, unrealized hunk of potential, and Pizz put the heat on me. He pressured me sometimes 'til I thought I would break, and then he pounded (literally) on me relentlessly. Why? Because he saw what was underneath could stand up to the treatment and become something great.
Now, I don't know if I am a great man, but I know what one looks like and where to aim—and that is thanks to Pizz.
LOVE YOU COACH!!!!