I first met Merrill in the spring of 1993 when he moved into Old Farm condos & apartments in Salt Lake City. He came to Elders Quorum meeting one Sunday while I was teaching.
I liked to use the discussion method and it was hard due to the fact that it was a relatively small group of Elders. It was hard to get the degree of participation that I wanted. That is until the new guy (Merrill) started opening his mouth.
I knew immediately that this guy knew the scriptures really well and he became the backbone of my classes. He told me that when he was growing up that his parents and family made sure he learned the gospel well. I was so grateful to have Merrill in my class because he added so much knowledge and participation to the group.
We became good friends away from church and have remained friends over the years. I never saw Merrill mad at anyone and we personally never had a hard word in all those years. He was a good, pure person who cared a great deal about other people and others liked him as well.
We played church basketball together for many years, we played tennis a lot because Merrill really liked that game, and later we played golf together. I tried earlier to get him interested in golf, but it just the wrong time. Then later he did get interested in golf and he loved to play with his brothers in Utah County and with me when in Salt Lake.
It is hard to lose a really good friend especially at a relatively young age, but I sensed that Merrill accepted it well and was in a very good place spiritually these past months. If anyone was prepared and ready to move on...it was Merrill. I'm sure he is in a much better place now. I'm so grateful for my testimony!
Rich Kletting