Ralph Gene Rittenhouse's Obituary
Ralph Gene Rittenhouse, 85, passed away peacefully of natural causes on September 21, 2024, in Provo, Utah, where he had recently moved to be closer to family. Born on December 18, 1938, in Alhambra, California, Ralph's life was defined by hard work, firm opinions, and a strong commitment to his trade.
Ralph was the second of five brothers, raised in Arcadia, California. Ralph’s mother, Jean Armetta Stansbury, passed away when he was just 8 years old. Ralph grew up quickly, shaped by the example of his father, Ralph Wilbur Rittenhouse, who owned an appliance store; selling and fixing appliances, and who later owned the El Chico Mexican restaurant.
During his high school years in Arcadia, Ralph made a name for himself on the football field, regularly earning mention in local newspapers for his athletic achievements. It was in his senior year that he met Linda Suzanne Barlow, who would become his high school sweetheart and later his wife. Together, they had three children: Ralph Barry, Kate Liane, and the late David Griffith.
Ralph’s work was always his primary focus. He began his career as a car salesman and soon found success in various business ventures. After briefly running an ice cream parlor, he shifted to real estate, founding Rittenhouse Realty, and later established himself as a general contractor. Ralph built homes across Southern California, including in cities like Arcadia, Pasadena, and Rancho Cucamonga. Even into his 80s, Ralph remained deeply involved in construction, and the homes he built are a testament to his skill and perseverance.
Known for his directness, Ralph was never shy about offering advice. He was often blunt and critical. He didn’t mince words and was known for his no-nonsense attitude. He believed in perseverance and hard work. His friends appreciated his candid nature and perspective on the world.
Though he was always busy with work, Ralph enjoyed a few pastimes, including deep-sea fishing, tennis, racquetball, photography, and, later in life, bird-watching. He enjoyed nature and could often be found photographing flowers near his home. His dream was to build one last house in the Pasadena foothills on a piece of land he considered his paradise.
Ralph had a complex relationship with his family. As a father, Ralph could be tough, but his children recall moments he showed a caring side. They have fond memories of him bringing home a large incubator to hatch chickens and ducks in their Arcadia home. He also helped them raise and care for other animals such as rabbits, dogs, and even a goat.
Ralph is survived by his son Ralph Barry and daughter Kate Liane, along with their spouses, grandchildren, and an ever-growing number of great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his second wife, Ruth Ann Austin Thomas, with whom he shared travels and adventures, as well as his first wife, Linda, and his son, David. Ralph will be remembered for the many homes he built across Southern California and the lasting mark he left on those who knew him.
A private family service will be held in his honor.
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