Jacob Ong
We will all miss her grace, her love, and her great concern for all of the law students; my mom passed away around the same age from cancer, and so I pray that her family will all be comforted in Christ.
Birth date: Oct 4, 1958 Death date: Dec 29, 2019
Wendy C. Tidwell-Archibald 1958-2019 Wendy Carla Tidwell Archibald died on Sunday, December 29, 2019, in Provo, Utah from complications associated with stage 4 melanoma. She was born in Nampa, Idaho on October 4, 1958 to Carl and Read Obituary
We will all miss her grace, her love, and her great concern for all of the law students; my mom passed away around the same age from cancer, and so I pray that her family will all be comforted in Christ.
I met Dean Archibald at an event for prospective law students. She spoke with me very sincerely and shared experiences that helped me make the decision to attend law school. She was a light to everyone she came in contact with.
Dean Archibald knew my name seemingly before I even stepped into the law school. She was, I realize now, like that with everyone--quick to know you, quick to love you, and quick to heal you in whatever way she could.
Her passing was honestly a surprise to me. I knew the danger of her illness, but after seeing her work so many miracles for us at the law school, I guess I just assumed her cancer would miraculously disappear. I realize now that Dean Archibald was and is the miracle, regardless of her cancer-status. She has always been a miracle.
Since I learned of her passing, this poem (one dear to me) has been on my mind:
God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So He put His arms around you
and whispered, "Come to me."
With careful eyes we watched you,
we saw you pass away.
Although we love you dearly,
we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
Dean Archibald was the best. Her smile warmed the whole law school--and she wore it fearlessly even when I know it was tough. Her laugh was rich and relentless--and she used it to lift heads, hands, and hearts. And her eyes were true--she SAW everyone she met.
I am forever grateful for the influence she has had on my life, and forever indebted to her dear family for sharing her with us. God bless you, and God bless Dean Archibald.
I am so sorry for your loss. Wendy was such a wonderful woman and I remember being invited to her home for her first dessert party as a Student Dean at BYU law in 2008. She was so spunky and inviting, even in her honesty that she wasn't "exactly sure what she was doing" -- but then neither did we, so we were all going to just figure it out together! She was so kind and supportive when I told I was expecting my first baby as I was finishing my 3L year (I graduated in December with her help) and her love and support of that crazy last semester was invaluable. She told me that I could do it and that we would figure it out -- and she did and we did. She held my baby and praised my final semester efforts and I could feel her love and passion for her students and their journey through law school. She was a fabulous light and delight and I will remember her kindness always.
I was called to serve as secretary in the Young Women's organization when Wendy was President. From the begining, I felt her love for the young women and leaders. I appreciated her sense of humor that could ease an awkward situation (especially at girls camp), her continued friendship after our releases and most importantly her testimony of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ.
While we were serving together, my son in law was attending law school. I mentioned in passing how my daughter was frustrated at times with his behavior. She laughed out loud and said, "He'll get over it in a couple of years, I did!" She went on to explain the teaching techniques in law school and how you are "trained" to be opinionated and argumentative. She expressed her love for Lyle for his patience with her. I passed this information onto my daughter and true to her word he did change. He is a wonderful husband, father and son in law. Your family has been in our prayers during this most difficult time. She was a remarkable woman.
JoAnn Garlock
Wendy’s smile and laugh were so very infectious, you couldn’t help but be in a better mood, be a better person because of her. You will be sorely missed. Dinah Walker-Lord, VHS Class of 76.
Sorry you had the attic room at the Treehouse B&B in Nauvoo...especially when the A/C went out (twice).
Love you, Vicki